I am on the board of a non-profit do-gooder organization. Just like Houston Nutt. I have business to conduct with 3 0r 4 serious lookers who are on the board. All of them are married. I exchange e-mails and text messages with them from time to time.
The max would be around 25-30 a month. 95% would be business related and the other messages tend to be about questions about my Mom.
I have no idea what is going on up there and I don't care.
Not making a value judgment but even assuming that everything is on the up and up, everybody up there seems to have a tin ear as to appearances.